You will figure it out.
Life isn’t easy. As we get older, we start to realize that sometimes we have to make decisions that don’t feel good but are for our best interest. We figure it out. That’s the cool thing about human beings. We’re built to adapt. If you sit in the moment, you’re in right now, and you look at everything that you’ve gone through you have survived every hardship That has ever existed in your life up until this point. No, I’m not saying that we should have to survive things but once again, that’s life. I have always tried to take the mindset of looking at a failure and learning from it. Because with everything that doesn’t work out, we learn something new about ourselves. I need, I want, like, a dislike, and so many other wonderful, beautiful things. All this to say, that we figure it out eventually. Of course, we are doing the work on the way, hopefully. But we figure it out and on the less. Recently, I personally have had to face the mirror about some personal issues in my own life. And while the decisions that I have come to aren’t the easiest, I know they are the healthiest decisions.
So, if you’re finding yourself in a spot, where are you feel between a rock and a hard place, remind yourself that up until this point, you have survived it all. Your brain, body, and soul have an incredible way of giving you the things that your body needs. Don’t doubt the beautiful ability that mother nature has given you by just existing. Give yourself credit for working as hard as you do to create the life that you want. Life isn’t easy, but you will figure it out. Keep going.
Much love always,
your cycle half Stephanie
I remember when a guest on the show said something about surviving every terrible thing you have ever been through no matter how hard it seems at the time. I loved hearing it then and I love hearing it now. I said it to my older daughter recently when she was down and expressing she did not think she would ever get though something difficult she was going through